"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can Approach Well, What Next?

AbsolutBeirut

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My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BadJadder said:
My game has reached the point where I can pretty much approach any set and throw in my default opener if I don't got anything better to say. Most of the time I get resistance but I am able to stick around by changing threads. Then I reach the point where I become lame, so I split. Doing it so often has gotten me prepared for the multitude of responses that I'd get out of it like "are you using a pickup line on me?". Anyways, I just want to know whether I'm doing a good job by not getting phased out by it and whether it takes even more perseverance to actually get somewhere. Or is it that I am doing it wrong in the first place because I really don't have to jump through that many hoops?
Are you following a specific model? Or are you making your own?

I suggest the M3 Model by Mystery. A lot of the time, guys who make their own model aren't doing it right.

Attract

A1- Open
A2- Female to Male Interest (Where you display higher value)
A3- Male to Female Interest (Where you reward her with IOIs)

Comfort

C1- Conversation
C2- Comfort Building (Rapport, use story telling here)
C3- Intimacy (Kissing)

Seduction

S1- Foreplay
S2- LMR
S3- Sex

Make sure you bind C3 and S1,2 and 3.

You must have enough comfort before you can go past the point of no return. C3 is kissing, that's ok. If it turns into Makeout, you must stop and hold yourself back. Makeout is part of S1.
 

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Usually what follow next after an approach is anal sex.
 

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Uhm, what's the point of an approach if you aren't gonna attempt to escalate to the next level?

1.Approach
2.Hook
3.Switch conversation topic
4.Explore
5.Isolate
6.Escalate
7.Kiss close, number close, fvck close...

Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.

-E.Nigma
 

AbsolutBeirut

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MisterNigma said:
Hardest part is hooking the set, once you're engaged in conversation with the whole set, the rest seems relatively simple.
That's exactly my problem!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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