"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can any guy out here agree with this quote?

DoubleA

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Sixamrunner wrote

"Georgeous women have had share of hookups and will test a man to see how he deals with her nonsense."

Can any guy say that when dealing with a woman she has thrown things your way that really confused you when trying to figure out where her Interest Level was?

I recently had indirect dealings with an Ex, through so called friends. Some are telling me that she didn't like the fact I was bringing lady friends by my apartment. And how much she was in love with me. Well, the munite I show Interest in her outright, I'm told she doesn't want me. What the hell is that?

Fellas i ask you what kind of fool am I? Am I a fool that still believes that deep down there's a chance between her and I? Am I fool that allows himself to be turned every which way by my emotions? Or am I allowing myself to be toy'd with when I been reading what each of guys had to say in your dealings with these women out here for like almost a year now. Is it possible with the basic practices of DJing that there might be one woman who that finds the soft spot in the armor...

I'd like to hear what any of the experienced DJs have to say about this...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I go by the old saying "she's an ex for a reason".

She doesn't truly want you. The only thing she wants is the gratification she derives from knowing that if she DID want you, she could have you.
 

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Hold up..

So you're saying that the only reason she was doing this was too get self satisfaction knowing that she could have me when she really doesn't want me... What the hell is that?!

I mean I used to know a couple of women who wanteed me and i could have hit or dated them, but I was sticking my chest out and headtripping..
 
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