"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can any guy out here agree with this quote?

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Sixamrunner wrote

"Georgeous women have had share of hookups and will test a man to see how he deals with her nonsense."

Can any guy say that when dealing with a woman she has thrown things your way that really confused you when trying to figure out where her Interest Level was?

I recently had indirect dealings with an Ex, through so called friends. Some are telling me that she didn't like the fact I was bringing lady friends by my apartment. And how much she was in love with me. Well, the munite I show Interest in her outright, I'm told she doesn't want me. What the hell is that?

Fellas i ask you what kind of fool am I? Am I a fool that still believes that deep down there's a chance between her and I? Am I fool that allows himself to be turned every which way by my emotions? Or am I allowing myself to be toy'd with when I been reading what each of guys had to say in your dealings with these women out here for like almost a year now. Is it possible with the basic practices of DJing that there might be one woman who that finds the soft spot in the armor...

I'd like to hear what any of the experienced DJs have to say about this...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I go by the old saying "she's an ex for a reason".

She doesn't truly want you. The only thing she wants is the gratification she derives from knowing that if she DID want you, she could have you.
 
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Hold up..

So you're saying that the only reason she was doing this was too get self satisfaction knowing that she could have me when she really doesn't want me... What the hell is that?!

I mean I used to know a couple of women who wanteed me and i could have hit or dated them, but I was sticking my chest out and headtripping..
 
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