"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can any guy out here agree with this quote?

DoubleA

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Sixamrunner wrote

"Georgeous women have had share of hookups and will test a man to see how he deals with her nonsense."

Can any guy say that when dealing with a woman she has thrown things your way that really confused you when trying to figure out where her Interest Level was?

I recently had indirect dealings with an Ex, through so called friends. Some are telling me that she didn't like the fact I was bringing lady friends by my apartment. And how much she was in love with me. Well, the munite I show Interest in her outright, I'm told she doesn't want me. What the hell is that?

Fellas i ask you what kind of fool am I? Am I a fool that still believes that deep down there's a chance between her and I? Am I fool that allows himself to be turned every which way by my emotions? Or am I allowing myself to be toy'd with when I been reading what each of guys had to say in your dealings with these women out here for like almost a year now. Is it possible with the basic practices of DJing that there might be one woman who that finds the soft spot in the armor...

I'd like to hear what any of the experienced DJs have to say about this...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I go by the old saying "she's an ex for a reason".

She doesn't truly want you. The only thing she wants is the gratification she derives from knowing that if she DID want you, she could have you.
 

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Hold up..

So you're saying that the only reason she was doing this was too get self satisfaction knowing that she could have me when she really doesn't want me... What the hell is that?!

I mean I used to know a couple of women who wanteed me and i could have hit or dated them, but I was sticking my chest out and headtripping..
 
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