"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can a guy get hiv from oral sex?

rocco

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can a guy get hiv (or perhaps other kinds of std's) from going down on a girl?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Sexual route. The majority of HIV infections are acquired through unprotected sexual relations. Sexual transmission can occur when infected sexual secretions of one partner come into contact with the genital, oral, or rectal mucous membranes of another."


Links:
HIV
Transmission and prevention
STDs
Transmission
 

speakeasy

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rocco said:
can a guy get hiv (or perhaps other kinds of std's) from going down on a girl?
Just don't suck down her juices and you should be ok for the most part.
 

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If a girl has a cut in her mouth or some kind of sore. It can happen

Use a condom. Tough crap if she hates the taste

You won't get HIV, HERPES, god knows what else
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So let's say you get a BJ from a girl with herpes, I wonder if you go and wash your d*ck off right afterwards, will that be enough to stop the virus from taking hold? How long does the virus have to be in contact with the skin on your penis for you to get herpes?
 

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If you are getting a BJ, there is very very little chance of getting HIV, unless she had open bloody wounds in her miouth, and she was blowing blood down your ****.. If that did not happen, then you are safe.
 

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im editing my post because i want to tell ryan that yes you can get herpes with condom use. i know because i did.
i also want to answer speakeasy's question. herpes is a skin virus not a bodily fluid one. if you give someone oral and there is enough skin contact, that's that. there isn't a set time period.
washing your face is a great idea to lower the risk, but it won't stop the spread of herpes, even if everyone tried it.
you can even catch it by kissing.
you can transfer oral herpes to genital herpes or genital herpes to oral herpes by having oral sex.


as for hiv, all i know is that it is a bodily fluid spread virus. it comes from blood, semen, vaginal secretions and pre ejaculation secretions and it can be passed thru breast milk coming into contact with your sexual oral or anal membranes. (mouth, sex organ or butthole) . at one time, we were told you could get it thru salvia, but i am unsure if that is still what is being told.


you can go to www.afraidtoask.com to find out any info you need, they include pictures and you can ask them questions also.
 
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The kissing only comes with mutual open wounds, and blood exchange, not from any saliva
 

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@ Penkitten,

Thanks for the link, it's very informative(and groce). It answered a lot of questions I had about diseases and such.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blink, we have several std threads here if you search under health and fitness
 

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makes you wanna get a needle and give em a quick prick when you meet em to test. just tell em "oops I must have had a killer hangnail on my finger i better go file that down"
 
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