"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
can a guy get hiv from oral sex?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KnockoutJM
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
i also want to answer speakeasy's question. herpes is a skin virus not a bodily fluid one. if you give someone oral and there is enough skin contact, that's that. there isn't a set time period.
washing your face is a great idea to lower the risk, but it won't stop the spread of herpes, even if everyone tried it.
you can even catch it by kissing.
you can transfer oral herpes to genital herpes or genital herpes to oral herpes by having oral sex.
as for hiv, all i know is that it is a bodily fluid spread virus. it comes from blood, semen, vaginal secretions and pre ejaculation secretions and it can be passed thru breast milk coming into contact with your sexual oral or anal membranes. (mouth, sex organ or butthole) . at one time, we were told you could get it thru salvia, but i am unsure if that is still what is being told.
you can go to www.afraidtoask.com to find out any info you need, they include pictures and you can ask them questions also.
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
