"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
can a guy get hiv from oral sex?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i also want to answer speakeasy's question. herpes is a skin virus not a bodily fluid one. if you give someone oral and there is enough skin contact, that's that. there isn't a set time period.
washing your face is a great idea to lower the risk, but it won't stop the spread of herpes, even if everyone tried it.
you can even catch it by kissing.
you can transfer oral herpes to genital herpes or genital herpes to oral herpes by having oral sex.
as for hiv, all i know is that it is a bodily fluid spread virus. it comes from blood, semen, vaginal secretions and pre ejaculation secretions and it can be passed thru breast milk coming into contact with your sexual oral or anal membranes. (mouth, sex organ or butthole) . at one time, we were told you could get it thru salvia, but i am unsure if that is still what is being told.
you can go to www.afraidtoask.com to find out any info you need, they include pictures and you can ask them questions also.
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
