"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can a girl use these ideas/adapt them?

learninlivin

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Hey, i've been reading all of these awesome ideas about how to be more outgoing and be happy, have a passion, etc. It's really helped me out but I was wondering if some of the same social advice can work for girls? I don't know if there is a website like this for girls (I don't want to be a slut, just learn how to be sucessful socially,emotionally, and all of that)...but I'm halfway into my junior year at a new high school. I haven't made many friends but I feel like it's easier being a guy and just acting fun and crazy. Girls are so catty and always playing mind games and back stabbing their "friends". I don't know how to approach people anymore, I just feel intimidated by some of these B*tchy girls.
Disclaimer: The area I now live in is very much upper class and it's hard to adapt from a more working class, down to earth town. I have nice clothes but I don't know how to reach out to people.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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novaknight

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Hm...do you have an AIM or some sort of messaging device? I'd gladly help you, and share the bit of knowledge i have.
 

NorwegianDJ

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You should see if you find any sites like this for girls.

THIS YOU MUST DO:
Get fit. Girls with hot bodies are HOT.
Add me on facebook, so you can get massive social proof from my epic profile.
 

novaknight

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Add me as well. I think you're not bad looking (though I can't be sure). For a girl, the most important thing is to be fit.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lateluvr

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To the young lady, forget it, what happens or doesn't happen in high school is completely irrelavant to the rest of your life (unless you catch a disease, a bad reputation, or get pregnant) Very little of what happens in college matters either, hon, for real. It's all a big bs game.
 
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