"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can a girl use these ideas/adapt them?

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Hey, i've been reading all of these awesome ideas about how to be more outgoing and be happy, have a passion, etc. It's really helped me out but I was wondering if some of the same social advice can work for girls? I don't know if there is a website like this for girls (I don't want to be a slut, just learn how to be sucessful socially,emotionally, and all of that)...but I'm halfway into my junior year at a new high school. I haven't made many friends but I feel like it's easier being a guy and just acting fun and crazy. Girls are so catty and always playing mind games and back stabbing their "friends". I don't know how to approach people anymore, I just feel intimidated by some of these B*tchy girls.
Disclaimer: The area I now live in is very much upper class and it's hard to adapt from a more working class, down to earth town. I have nice clothes but I don't know how to reach out to people.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hm...do you have an AIM or some sort of messaging device? I'd gladly help you, and share the bit of knowledge i have.
 
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You should see if you find any sites like this for girls.

THIS YOU MUST DO:
Get fit. Girls with hot bodies are HOT.
Add me on facebook, so you can get massive social proof from my epic profile.
 
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Add me as well. I think you're not bad looking (though I can't be sure). For a girl, the most important thing is to be fit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To the young lady, forget it, what happens or doesn't happen in high school is completely irrelavant to the rest of your life (unless you catch a disease, a bad reputation, or get pregnant) Very little of what happens in college matters either, hon, for real. It's all a big bs game.
 
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