"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can a girl use these ideas/adapt them?

learninlivin

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Hey, i've been reading all of these awesome ideas about how to be more outgoing and be happy, have a passion, etc. It's really helped me out but I was wondering if some of the same social advice can work for girls? I don't know if there is a website like this for girls (I don't want to be a slut, just learn how to be sucessful socially,emotionally, and all of that)...but I'm halfway into my junior year at a new high school. I haven't made many friends but I feel like it's easier being a guy and just acting fun and crazy. Girls are so catty and always playing mind games and back stabbing their "friends". I don't know how to approach people anymore, I just feel intimidated by some of these B*tchy girls.
Disclaimer: The area I now live in is very much upper class and it's hard to adapt from a more working class, down to earth town. I have nice clothes but I don't know how to reach out to people.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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novaknight

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Hm...do you have an AIM or some sort of messaging device? I'd gladly help you, and share the bit of knowledge i have.
 

NorwegianDJ

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You should see if you find any sites like this for girls.

THIS YOU MUST DO:
Get fit. Girls with hot bodies are HOT.
Add me on facebook, so you can get massive social proof from my epic profile.
 

novaknight

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Add me as well. I think you're not bad looking (though I can't be sure). For a girl, the most important thing is to be fit.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lateluvr

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To the young lady, forget it, what happens or doesn't happen in high school is completely irrelavant to the rest of your life (unless you catch a disease, a bad reputation, or get pregnant) Very little of what happens in college matters either, hon, for real. It's all a big bs game.
 
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