"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can a girl use these ideas/adapt them?

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Hey, i've been reading all of these awesome ideas about how to be more outgoing and be happy, have a passion, etc. It's really helped me out but I was wondering if some of the same social advice can work for girls? I don't know if there is a website like this for girls (I don't want to be a slut, just learn how to be sucessful socially,emotionally, and all of that)...but I'm halfway into my junior year at a new high school. I haven't made many friends but I feel like it's easier being a guy and just acting fun and crazy. Girls are so catty and always playing mind games and back stabbing their "friends". I don't know how to approach people anymore, I just feel intimidated by some of these B*tchy girls.
Disclaimer: The area I now live in is very much upper class and it's hard to adapt from a more working class, down to earth town. I have nice clothes but I don't know how to reach out to people.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hm...do you have an AIM or some sort of messaging device? I'd gladly help you, and share the bit of knowledge i have.
 
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You should see if you find any sites like this for girls.

THIS YOU MUST DO:
Get fit. Girls with hot bodies are HOT.
Add me on facebook, so you can get massive social proof from my epic profile.
 
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Add me as well. I think you're not bad looking (though I can't be sure). For a girl, the most important thing is to be fit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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To the young lady, forget it, what happens or doesn't happen in high school is completely irrelavant to the rest of your life (unless you catch a disease, a bad reputation, or get pregnant) Very little of what happens in college matters either, hon, for real. It's all a big bs game.
 
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