"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can a girl be interested in a guy even if she ignores him?

IrishLad

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My crush knows I like her. I texted her saying that and that I'd like to stay friends as I thought I made her uncomfortable at the time because her (now ex) bf at the time made up rumours about me and said that she said it. She said she was really embarrassed by them and her ex went over the line and I shouldn't be sorry and we "of course we can still be friends".

Sometimes I catch her looking at me but it is only ever for a second before she looks away.

Most of the time she looks straight ahead or looks down and to the sides when we walk past eachother. It's kind of a sweeping motion with her eyes.

She usually responds to texts and snaps if they have content that is worth replying too. Her snaps usually show her eyes and face.

We sometimes talk and she holds eye contact. Depending on what we are talking about, she plays with her hair, smiles and does those breath out laughs. Yesterday, we were talking about something a teacher asked her to do and she was doing those "sigh laughs".

I'm not sure if she likes me back. She seems interested in another guy too.
She tags him in stuff on Facebook but not often.

Edit: Turns out her and that guy are cousins.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Billtx49

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She sounds like she's shy. Ask her out and answer your own question, and don't Ever use the word Friends with her again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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