"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can a girl be interested in a guy even if she ignores him?

IrishLad

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My crush knows I like her. I texted her saying that and that I'd like to stay friends as I thought I made her uncomfortable at the time because her (now ex) bf at the time made up rumours about me and said that she said it. She said she was really embarrassed by them and her ex went over the line and I shouldn't be sorry and we "of course we can still be friends".

Sometimes I catch her looking at me but it is only ever for a second before she looks away.

Most of the time she looks straight ahead or looks down and to the sides when we walk past eachother. It's kind of a sweeping motion with her eyes.

She usually responds to texts and snaps if they have content that is worth replying too. Her snaps usually show her eyes and face.

We sometimes talk and she holds eye contact. Depending on what we are talking about, she plays with her hair, smiles and does those breath out laughs. Yesterday, we were talking about something a teacher asked her to do and she was doing those "sigh laughs".

I'm not sure if she likes me back. She seems interested in another guy too.
She tags him in stuff on Facebook but not often.

Edit: Turns out her and that guy are cousins.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Billtx49

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She sounds like she's shy. Ask her out and answer your own question, and don't Ever use the word Friends with her again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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