redskinsfan92
Master Don Juan
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Did everything smell fine? Her. You. The room. Any bad smells kills my drive.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Actually if they care enough they can setup a "proxy" so your communication will make it.I totally agree.
But when it comes to women who I really like or if they really like me, a little bit of communication clears that road pretty easily. Most of the times if a person has chosen to get naked in your bed they are attracted sexually. People get self conscious or think too much most of the time.
If OP is kissing the woman and getting turned on enough to get her in to bed, I gurentee he’s just in his head. Otherwise he wouldn’t have desire to kiss her and take her clothes off.
No sexual chemistry; you’d know from the second you were talking to her you couldn’t tune in to her satellite to play your music
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, there is the Al Bundy method: have an image in your mind from Big 'Uns magazine. Of course, you might be desensitized by p0rn, causing the problem to begin with.I’ve slept with this chick twice. Just tried banging her a few hours ago and was able to get the job done but nothing to brag about. I was only about 70% of my full size.
I am pretty embarrassed because I feel like she had high expectations for me.
I went home and rubbed one out and was hard as a rock looking at some porn in a matter of a minute. Nothing wrong with my erections.
I just couldn’t get turned on for some reason. I really like this girl and want to keep her I care about her but I’m starting to wonder if the problem is her? Any advice? She was giving me head and doing everything she could to get me hard but nothing...
Slept with a different chick a few months ago first night I met her and was great absolutely no issues.
I want to redeem myself and really give it to her good one time...she’s still talking to me but **** maybe I should just be done with it and move on to another girl