Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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To prevent this from happening again, bang her more often.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
calling ur gf a b!tch...
- Thread starter illmatic1005
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
So you're not allowed to answer her back?? What a great catch she is. Move on man, if she pisses you off alot then surely you cant be happy with her.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Call her a Cvnt.illmatic1005 said:ok..my gf is always like..can u get me that, can u get me this..sometimes i do it, sometimes i dont
so the other day she said, ''can you fix my sleeve i dont feel like doing it''
so i said 'haha i think u can handle that'
and she said 'ur such a b!tch', and i said "no u r..do this do that is all i hear''
and she got PlSSED and said .i was only joking, u wre serious,,,and i said no
and shes been angry ever since..
any advice?
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
I support the use of Cvnt!Gangster Of Love said:Call her a Cvnt.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DonGorgon
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She does not respect you and you need to start treating her like shti.
MooseGod
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I think the main sticking point here is that she got pissed about it when you called her a *****, instead of calling you an ******* in response and dropping it at that. She's not the one.
You see, in a good relationship, it goes like this:
"You're a *****!"
"You're an *******!"
"Are you as turned on as I am right now?" :crackup:
You see, in a good relationship, it goes like this:
"You're a *****!"
"You're an *******!"
"Are you as turned on as I am right now?" :crackup:
well, at least the makeup sex is gonna be good. this is ur time to shine man.
btw, i dont think she's insecure, just sensitive. I bet she has anxiety and gets nervous at times, right?
no one listen to macavoy, all he does is b!tch about this forum yet he's always posting
btw, i dont think she's insecure, just sensitive. I bet she has anxiety and gets nervous at times, right?
no one listen to macavoy, all he does is b!tch about this forum yet he's always posting
MacAvoy
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Haha, where did I ever b1tch about the site? ps you post more than me (1.42 posts per day, I only have 0.76 posts per day) Just because I asked you not to bring out the negative in a post, your upset with me?Sandow said:no one listen to macavoy, all he does is b!tch about this forum yet he's always posting
I was just giving the OP some tough love as he's been here for a looooong time, he's not a newby and should by now know better to read the bible, which he AGREED to in the thread.
illmatic1005
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yea she is very sensitive..she takes EVERYTHING personally.Sandow said:well, at least the makeup sex is gonna be good. this is ur time to shine man.
btw, i dont think she's insecure, just sensitive. I bet she has anxiety and gets nervous at times, right?
but she is also insecure..shes always complaining aobut her weight, looks, etc even tho they are all fine..she even straight up told me she is insecure
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Why be with some one like that?illmatic1005 said:yea she is very sensitive..she takes EVERYTHING personally.
but she is also insecure..shes always complaining aobut her weight, looks, etc even tho they are all fine..she even straight up told me she is insecure