"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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calling ur gf a b!tch...

Flabbergasped?

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To prevent this from happening again, bang her more often.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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steve12b

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If you haven't figured out how to make her happy by now something is wrong with one or both of you.
 

just so suave

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So you're not allowed to answer her back?? What a great catch she is. Move on man, if she pisses you off alot then surely you cant be happy with her.
 

Gangster Of Love

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illmatic1005 said:
ok..my gf is always like..can u get me that, can u get me this..sometimes i do it, sometimes i dont

so the other day she said, ''can you fix my sleeve i dont feel like doing it''

so i said 'haha i think u can handle that'

and she said 'ur such a b!tch', and i said "no u r..do this do that is all i hear''

and she got PlSSED and said .i was only joking, u wre serious,,,and i said no

and shes been angry ever since..

any advice?
Call her a Cvnt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MooseGod

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I think the main sticking point here is that she got pissed about it when you called her a *****, instead of calling you an ******* in response and dropping it at that. She's not the one.

You see, in a good relationship, it goes like this:

"You're a *****!"

"You're an *******!"

"Are you as turned on as I am right now?" :crackup:
 

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well, at least the makeup sex is gonna be good. this is ur time to shine man.

btw, i dont think she's insecure, just sensitive. I bet she has anxiety and gets nervous at times, right?

no one listen to macavoy, all he does is b!tch about this forum yet he's always posting
 

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Sandow said:
no one listen to macavoy, all he does is b!tch about this forum yet he's always posting
Haha, where did I ever b1tch about the site? ps you post more than me (1.42 posts per day, I only have 0.76 posts per day) Just because I asked you not to bring out the negative in a post, your upset with me?

I was just giving the OP some tough love as he's been here for a looooong time, he's not a newby and should by now know better to read the bible, which he AGREED to in the thread.
 

illmatic1005

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Sandow said:
well, at least the makeup sex is gonna be good. this is ur time to shine man.

btw, i dont think she's insecure, just sensitive. I bet she has anxiety and gets nervous at times, right?
yea she is very sensitive..she takes EVERYTHING personally.

but she is also insecure..shes always complaining aobut her weight, looks, etc even tho they are all fine..she even straight up told me she is insecure
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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illmatic1005 said:
yea she is very sensitive..she takes EVERYTHING personally.

but she is also insecure..shes always complaining aobut her weight, looks, etc even tho they are all fine..she even straight up told me she is insecure
Why be with some one like that?
 
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