Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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To prevent this from happening again, bang her more often.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Call her a Cvnt.illmatic1005 said:ok..my gf is always like..can u get me that, can u get me this..sometimes i do it, sometimes i dont
so the other day she said, ''can you fix my sleeve i dont feel like doing it''
so i said 'haha i think u can handle that'
and she said 'ur such a b!tch', and i said "no u r..do this do that is all i hear''
and she got PlSSED and said .i was only joking, u wre serious,,,and i said no
and shes been angry ever since..
any advice?
I support the use of Cvnt!Gangster Of Love said:Call her a Cvnt.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Haha, where did I ever b1tch about the site? ps you post more than me (1.42 posts per day, I only have 0.76 posts per day) Just because I asked you not to bring out the negative in a post, your upset with me?Sandow said:no one listen to macavoy, all he does is b!tch about this forum yet he's always posting
yea she is very sensitive..she takes EVERYTHING personally.Sandow said:well, at least the makeup sex is gonna be good. this is ur time to shine man.
btw, i dont think she's insecure, just sensitive. I bet she has anxiety and gets nervous at times, right?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why be with some one like that?illmatic1005 said:yea she is very sensitive..she takes EVERYTHING personally.
but she is also insecure..shes always complaining aobut her weight, looks, etc even tho they are all fine..she even straight up told me she is insecure