“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Calling or texting the day after sex

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SunnyD said:
Haha....Canada unfortunately.

Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
 

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here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
 
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gruby said:
here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.

Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Could have been worse, could have been the hair on her lip! :nervous:
 

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Things are sounding great, don't let the haters get to you. Don't hate in 08!!!

Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.

Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!

Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.

GWIS?
 
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She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?

Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
Ummm, her lip was itching?
 

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Ummm, her lip was itching?
You the man after I read your message about being out with another plate I called this hottie in my phone she answered and we are meeting up tomorrow night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love you man ** NO HOMO
 
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