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SunnyD said:
Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Calling or texting the day after sex
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Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
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gruby said:here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:My Name is Nobody said:Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
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Francisco d'Anconia said:Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:
LOL
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Could have been worse, could have been the hair on her lip! :nervous:My Name is Nobody said:
iqqi
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Things are sounding great, don't let the haters get to you. Don't hate in 08!!!
Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.
Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!
Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.
GWIS?
Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.
Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!
Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.
GWIS?
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She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
Francisco d'Anconia
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Ummm, her lip was itching?My Name is Nobody said:She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
:crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Ummm, her lip was itching?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You the man after I read your message about being out with another plate I called this hottie in my phone she answered and we are meeting up tomorrow night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Ummm, her lip was itching?
I love you man ** NO HOMO