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SunnyD said:
Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Calling or texting the day after sex
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Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
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gruby said:here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
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Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:My Name is Nobody said:Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
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Francisco d'Anconia said:Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:
LOL
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Could have been worse, could have been the hair on her lip! :nervous:My Name is Nobody said:
iqqi
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Things are sounding great, don't let the haters get to you. Don't hate in 08!!!
Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.
Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!
Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.
GWIS?
Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.
Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!
Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.
GWIS?
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She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
Francisco d'Anconia
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Ummm, her lip was itching?My Name is Nobody said:She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
:crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Ummm, her lip was itching?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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You the man after I read your message about being out with another plate I called this hottie in my phone she answered and we are meeting up tomorrow night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Ummm, her lip was itching?
I love you man ** NO HOMO