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SunnyD said:
Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Damn you're out of the country? Not sure how it could work but I'm still open for possibilities ;-)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
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gruby said:here are my thought:
-- sleeping with a girl the first night might mean that she's a total w-hore or that she's really into you (usually it's the second one -- though it's easy to tell by looking into girl's eyes); this is actually my preffered way of hooking up. Dates are for after i sex the girl so we know we r really into each other.
-- texting is for f-uck buddies, phone calls are for girlfriends/potential girlfriends.
-- always get in touch the next day (by evening, not necessary by noon). You might develop a relationship if u r into the girl, or at least fine a f-uck buddy.
Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
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Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:My Name is Nobody said:Sounds good. I knew it was going well when she was twirling her hair the whole date with her finger. That's a great sign when they do that.
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Francisco d'Anconia said:Even when it's the hair on her arms???!!! :nervous:
LOL
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Could have been worse, could have been the hair on her lip! :nervous:My Name is Nobody said:
iqqi
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Things are sounding great, don't let the haters get to you. Don't hate in 08!!!
Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.
Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!
Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.
GWIS?
Besides, you already know you have a confidence issue, and that is good that u r aware.
Its cool she asked you out already... now lookahere: Don't seem so excited/available/dependent!!!
Just keep that in mind. If she asks you to make plans again, at least ACT like you think you already have plans that night. Then you can call her back, and make her get all excited when you realize your plans aren't THAT night, and you are free.
GWIS?
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She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
Sorry iqqi I didn't see your post until now and we hung out last night after she texted me asking me to "do something". I haven't contacted her since she left my place this morning so I'm playing it cool ;-)
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Ummm, her lip was itching?My Name is Nobody said:She was still twirling her hair with her finger last night when we were chilling and she told me I "have game".. What does that mean?
:crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Ummm, her lip was itching?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You the man after I read your message about being out with another plate I called this hottie in my phone she answered and we are meeting up tomorrow night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Ummm, her lip was itching?
I love you man ** NO HOMO