Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ducaro said:You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)
what would would do?
If she does it again? Are you retarded?Raikojo17 said:let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Quoted for wisdom.Fred Da Head said:If she does it again? Are you retarded?
When it comes to cheating, it's a one-strike-you're-out policy, period.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ducaro said:You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)
what would would do?
i thought you guys would sense the sarcasm. lol guess not.Raikojo17 said:let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
absolut honesty said:do u guys kno what its like to use a girl for good sex and just play with her head??
thats what u gotta do to a girl that cheats on u
dont JUST get rid of her
make some good use out of her
be efficient lol
(im serious)