Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ducaro said:You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)
what would would do?
If she does it again? Are you retarded?Raikojo17 said:let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Quoted for wisdom.Fred Da Head said:If she does it again? Are you retarded?
When it comes to cheating, it's a one-strike-you're-out policy, period.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ducaro said:You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)
what would would do?
i thought you guys would sense the sarcasm. lol guess not.Raikojo17 said:let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
absolut honesty said:do u guys kno what its like to use a girl for good sex and just play with her head??
thats what u gotta do to a girl that cheats on u
dont JUST get rid of her
make some good use out of her
be efficient lol
(im serious)