"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Calling all the 'Men' for a Mentality test

ducaro

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You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)

what would would do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ducaro said:
You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)

what would would do?

let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
If she does it again? Are you retarded?

When it comes to cheating, it's a one-strike-you're-out policy, period.
 

So pimp its scary

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She is GONE! As in don't bother giving me the key cause the locks are changed, and you can pick up your shyt from the front porch when you're ready.

The guy more than likely would not have known the situation and is essentially an innocent bystander.

I could never go back to a girl that cheated on me, and would probly take some time to figure out what I did that made it so she would cheat in the first place... or how I couldn't have seen the signs sooner, so I could have confronted the issue and possibly dump her before she goes and cheats.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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keep her around as a **** buddy and go hook up with other girls.........and oh yea, tell her she owes u for cheating and get her to pay for ur shyt and get her friends to have 3somes - all because she owes u

use her infidelity to your benefit

and remember, GET OTHER GIRLS - its called sweet revenge
 

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I would start crying, grabbing her ankles like a little b1tch and beg her to stay with me and then I am going to find this guy and kick his ass. If she doesn't come back to me then I am going to follow her around 24-7 (or as some liberal minded people in society call it "stalking) and make sure she will never be happy either!

Or just be happy that I didn't marry her and now I am free to spin plates and enjoy life.
 

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I agree with Fred and So Pimp, cheating is a relationship ending offence.

Their famous line is "it was an accident!", yeah right, like you just slipped on a banana peel and landed on the guys d**k!!
 

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Fred Da Head said:
If she does it again? Are you retarded?

When it comes to cheating, it's a one-strike-you're-out policy, period.
Quoted for wisdom.
 
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do u guys kno what its like to use a girl for good sex and just play with her head??

thats what u gotta do to a girl that cheats on u

dont JUST get rid of her

make some good use out of her

be efficient lol

(im serious)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So pimp its scary

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^^^^^
LMAO!!

Really, I wouldn't even want to play that type of puppetry on a girl that cheated on me... fvck in some cultures cheating is a precurser to someone getting stoned to death.
 
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Hors are not "good"!! G/f = hor! No such thing as a "g/f"!!

Why are you in love with a hor??? That is your problem not the hors!! Hors cannot "cheat" - by definition they are loyal to the penis and not the man!!!
 

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ducaro said:
You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)

what would would do?

this is what you have to do.

slowly seperate yourself from her emotionally. dont let yourself get caught in that trap of psychosis that just turned my life upside down. keep her in your life if SHE wants to, going forward. play it off, play it cool..

have air tight alibis and the like and meet with and see other chics on the side. SLOWLY become unavailable until the one day when she pisses you off enough or you are in another relationship and then just shut her like a storm door. BANG GOODBYE GONE!

this will destroy her.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
i thought you guys would sense the sarcasm. lol guess not.


drop her. if she doesnt have enough respect for you to not control her urges then she's not worth it
 

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If she is dumb enough to get caught cheating, you're smart enough to dump her ass
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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absolut honesty said:
do u guys kno what its like to use a girl for good sex and just play with her head??

thats what u gotta do to a girl that cheats on u

dont JUST get rid of her

make some good use out of her

be efficient lol

(im serious)

QFT!!!

(quoted for truth)
 
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