"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ducaro

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You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)

what would would do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ducaro said:
You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)

what would would do?

let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
If she does it again? Are you retarded?

When it comes to cheating, it's a one-strike-you're-out policy, period.
 

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She is GONE! As in don't bother giving me the key cause the locks are changed, and you can pick up your shyt from the front porch when you're ready.

The guy more than likely would not have known the situation and is essentially an innocent bystander.

I could never go back to a girl that cheated on me, and would probly take some time to figure out what I did that made it so she would cheat in the first place... or how I couldn't have seen the signs sooner, so I could have confronted the issue and possibly dump her before she goes and cheats.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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keep her around as a **** buddy and go hook up with other girls.........and oh yea, tell her she owes u for cheating and get her to pay for ur shyt and get her friends to have 3somes - all because she owes u

use her infidelity to your benefit

and remember, GET OTHER GIRLS - its called sweet revenge
 

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I would start crying, grabbing her ankles like a little b1tch and beg her to stay with me and then I am going to find this guy and kick his ass. If she doesn't come back to me then I am going to follow her around 24-7 (or as some liberal minded people in society call it "stalking) and make sure she will never be happy either!

Or just be happy that I didn't marry her and now I am free to spin plates and enjoy life.
 

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I agree with Fred and So Pimp, cheating is a relationship ending offence.

Their famous line is "it was an accident!", yeah right, like you just slipped on a banana peel and landed on the guys d**k!!
 

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Fred Da Head said:
If she does it again? Are you retarded?

When it comes to cheating, it's a one-strike-you're-out policy, period.
Quoted for wisdom.
 
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do u guys kno what its like to use a girl for good sex and just play with her head??

thats what u gotta do to a girl that cheats on u

dont JUST get rid of her

make some good use out of her

be efficient lol

(im serious)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So pimp its scary

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^^^^^
LMAO!!

Really, I wouldn't even want to play that type of puppetry on a girl that cheated on me... fvck in some cultures cheating is a precurser to someone getting stoned to death.
 
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Hors are not "good"!! G/f = hor! No such thing as a "g/f"!!

Why are you in love with a hor??? That is your problem not the hors!! Hors cannot "cheat" - by definition they are loyal to the penis and not the man!!!
 

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ducaro said:
You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. All of a sudden, out ofthe blue.. she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation, whether you accept it or not)

what would would do?

this is what you have to do.

slowly seperate yourself from her emotionally. dont let yourself get caught in that trap of psychosis that just turned my life upside down. keep her in your life if SHE wants to, going forward. play it off, play it cool..

have air tight alibis and the like and meet with and see other chics on the side. SLOWLY become unavailable until the one day when she pisses you off enough or you are in another relationship and then just shut her like a storm door. BANG GOODBYE GONE!

this will destroy her.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
let her know that you dont tolerate that sh1t and if she does it again than it will be over between you 2.
i thought you guys would sense the sarcasm. lol guess not.


drop her. if she doesnt have enough respect for you to not control her urges then she's not worth it
 

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If she is dumb enough to get caught cheating, you're smart enough to dump her ass
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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absolut honesty said:
do u guys kno what its like to use a girl for good sex and just play with her head??

thats what u gotta do to a girl that cheats on u

dont JUST get rid of her

make some good use out of her

be efficient lol

(im serious)

QFT!!!

(quoted for truth)
 
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