fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
Just wondering what do all you DJ's have planned this weekend?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Calling all DJ's
- Thread starter fuko2007
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
wordDemonpenz said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Saturday meeting a new chick for lunch, Sunday taking a drive to pick up a vintage arcade game I just bought.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tonight I'm going to a swingers "meet and greet" with a new f*ck buddy who is introducing me to the swinging and polyamory scene. No sex at this party, I guess they have to check out the new people to make sure we're not psychos before they invite us to the actual "play party" (I call 'em orgies). She said if her bisexual (female) friend shows up tonight we may be able to get a threesome going after the party.
Tomorrow one of my recent exes (9 month relp, ended a couple of weeks ago) wants to take me to a hotel and have sex. Not sure if I want to spend time hanging around a hotel the whole weekend with her, and not sure I really want to bang her again because I'm kind of over it. The hotel is pretty well-known and has a kickass party deck and pool so it might be worth it, but the girl is kind of broke so I'd feel bad about letting her spend $250 a night on something like this.
Sunday playing tennis with a chick I told about the swinging stuff and she seems into it and wants to know more. She and I have been playing tennis and flirting since last summer. She initiates most of it like sending me pics of herself in a bikini when she's on vacation with her husband. Her husband probably isn't into it so I'm going to try to convince her to come by herself to a swing party as a "unicorn" (ie single female). She's cheated on him in the past so I may be able to get her.
Tomorrow one of my recent exes (9 month relp, ended a couple of weeks ago) wants to take me to a hotel and have sex. Not sure if I want to spend time hanging around a hotel the whole weekend with her, and not sure I really want to bang her again because I'm kind of over it. The hotel is pretty well-known and has a kickass party deck and pool so it might be worth it, but the girl is kind of broke so I'd feel bad about letting her spend $250 a night on something like this.
Sunday playing tennis with a chick I told about the swinging stuff and she seems into it and wants to know more. She and I have been playing tennis and flirting since last summer. She initiates most of it like sending me pics of herself in a bikini when she's on vacation with her husband. Her husband probably isn't into it so I'm going to try to convince her to come by herself to a swing party as a "unicorn" (ie single female). She's cheated on him in the past so I may be able to get her.
HalfAddict
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Im gonna ride my bike. lol
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Gonna go buy some new clothes. Gotta look good.
DragonBlood
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Listen to some Ted Nugget and get some work done. My ***** can wait.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
bradd:
Best excuse ever, from American Psycho:
"I have to return some video tapes"
Best excuse ever, from American Psycho:
"I have to return some video tapes"