fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
Just wondering what do all you DJ's have planned this weekend?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Calling all DJ's
- Thread starter fuko2007
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
wordDemonpenz said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Saturday meeting a new chick for lunch, Sunday taking a drive to pick up a vintage arcade game I just bought.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tonight I'm going to a swingers "meet and greet" with a new f*ck buddy who is introducing me to the swinging and polyamory scene. No sex at this party, I guess they have to check out the new people to make sure we're not psychos before they invite us to the actual "play party" (I call 'em orgies). She said if her bisexual (female) friend shows up tonight we may be able to get a threesome going after the party.
Tomorrow one of my recent exes (9 month relp, ended a couple of weeks ago) wants to take me to a hotel and have sex. Not sure if I want to spend time hanging around a hotel the whole weekend with her, and not sure I really want to bang her again because I'm kind of over it. The hotel is pretty well-known and has a kickass party deck and pool so it might be worth it, but the girl is kind of broke so I'd feel bad about letting her spend $250 a night on something like this.
Sunday playing tennis with a chick I told about the swinging stuff and she seems into it and wants to know more. She and I have been playing tennis and flirting since last summer. She initiates most of it like sending me pics of herself in a bikini when she's on vacation with her husband. Her husband probably isn't into it so I'm going to try to convince her to come by herself to a swing party as a "unicorn" (ie single female). She's cheated on him in the past so I may be able to get her.
Tomorrow one of my recent exes (9 month relp, ended a couple of weeks ago) wants to take me to a hotel and have sex. Not sure if I want to spend time hanging around a hotel the whole weekend with her, and not sure I really want to bang her again because I'm kind of over it. The hotel is pretty well-known and has a kickass party deck and pool so it might be worth it, but the girl is kind of broke so I'd feel bad about letting her spend $250 a night on something like this.
Sunday playing tennis with a chick I told about the swinging stuff and she seems into it and wants to know more. She and I have been playing tennis and flirting since last summer. She initiates most of it like sending me pics of herself in a bikini when she's on vacation with her husband. Her husband probably isn't into it so I'm going to try to convince her to come by herself to a swing party as a "unicorn" (ie single female). She's cheated on him in the past so I may be able to get her.
HalfAddict
Master Don Juan
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Im gonna ride my bike. lol
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Gonna go buy some new clothes. Gotta look good.
DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
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Listen to some Ted Nugget and get some work done. My ***** can wait.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
bradd:
Best excuse ever, from American Psycho:
"I have to return some video tapes"
Best excuse ever, from American Psycho:
"I have to return some video tapes"