fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
Just wondering what do all you DJ's have planned this weekend?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Calling all DJ's
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
wordDemonpenz said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Saturday meeting a new chick for lunch, Sunday taking a drive to pick up a vintage arcade game I just bought.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tonight I'm going to a swingers "meet and greet" with a new f*ck buddy who is introducing me to the swinging and polyamory scene. No sex at this party, I guess they have to check out the new people to make sure we're not psychos before they invite us to the actual "play party" (I call 'em orgies). She said if her bisexual (female) friend shows up tonight we may be able to get a threesome going after the party.
Tomorrow one of my recent exes (9 month relp, ended a couple of weeks ago) wants to take me to a hotel and have sex. Not sure if I want to spend time hanging around a hotel the whole weekend with her, and not sure I really want to bang her again because I'm kind of over it. The hotel is pretty well-known and has a kickass party deck and pool so it might be worth it, but the girl is kind of broke so I'd feel bad about letting her spend $250 a night on something like this.
Sunday playing tennis with a chick I told about the swinging stuff and she seems into it and wants to know more. She and I have been playing tennis and flirting since last summer. She initiates most of it like sending me pics of herself in a bikini when she's on vacation with her husband. Her husband probably isn't into it so I'm going to try to convince her to come by herself to a swing party as a "unicorn" (ie single female). She's cheated on him in the past so I may be able to get her.
Tomorrow one of my recent exes (9 month relp, ended a couple of weeks ago) wants to take me to a hotel and have sex. Not sure if I want to spend time hanging around a hotel the whole weekend with her, and not sure I really want to bang her again because I'm kind of over it. The hotel is pretty well-known and has a kickass party deck and pool so it might be worth it, but the girl is kind of broke so I'd feel bad about letting her spend $250 a night on something like this.
Sunday playing tennis with a chick I told about the swinging stuff and she seems into it and wants to know more. She and I have been playing tennis and flirting since last summer. She initiates most of it like sending me pics of herself in a bikini when she's on vacation with her husband. Her husband probably isn't into it so I'm going to try to convince her to come by herself to a swing party as a "unicorn" (ie single female). She's cheated on him in the past so I may be able to get her.
HalfAddict
Master Don Juan
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Im gonna ride my bike. lol
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Gonna go buy some new clothes. Gotta look good.
DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
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Listen to some Ted Nugget and get some work done. My ***** can wait.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
bradd:
Best excuse ever, from American Psycho:
"I have to return some video tapes"
Best excuse ever, from American Psycho:
"I have to return some video tapes"