"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've been reading around this forum for quite a while and I thought, wouldn't it be nice if we all came together on MSN or AIM or something, and I know that some users put their AIMs, MSN,s etc. as an option to view, but not that many, I made my very own account earlier specially for use on the forum:

[email protected] (I only use MSN Messenger myself)

And the only people I am going to add are others from this forum and others like it (e.g. Mystery's Forum), this way we would be able to stick together in our own little group and send instant messages to others, and ask advice and get quick answers :)

You don't have to join in if you don't want...
I just think it would be nice :) so post your MSN, AIM whatever, as a reply if you want to join the group I hope to build :)

Best regards,
Sweet Tooth
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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P.S. - This is a re-post I don't think the title of the last post was very eye-catching...
 

Plec07

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I'm up for it but as I use msn for real life friends and i prefer to keep my identities seperate I won't post my addy here. My AIM is plec07, and i've added you on msn.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ah, there are more people doing this than I thought cool, My contact list is building up :)

Been using it for winging and I was able to ask a few SoSuave members for their advice which REALLY helped me out in a few sticky situations :woo: ...

Carry on adding your MSN / AIM (/Whatever you use) adresses :)

Thanks to those of you who are already taking part :)
 

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Thats me.

Also, once we get this setup and comfortable, perhaps we may beable to set up weekly meetings. I realize that organization would be key as I know how MSN can get cluttered.

undedtom
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay let's keep it going :) we starting to get more people now :)
 

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Bump...

Just want to keep this thread alive as I think it has really gone well so far...
 

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this seems like a good idea. i can ask for help and help others instantly. good idea. this should be told to the mods maybe they can make some sort of instant messaging service like a chat room..unless there already is one and ive missed it??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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