"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been reading around this forum for quite a while and I thought, wouldn't it be nice if we all came together on MSN or AIM or something, and I know that some users put their AIMs, MSN,s etc. as an option to view, but not that many, I made my very own account earlier specially for use on the forum:

[email protected] (I only use MSN Messenger myself)

And the only people I am going to add are others from this forum and others like it (e.g. Mystery's Forum), this way we would be able to stick together in our own little group and send instant messages to others, and ask advice and get quick answers :)

You don't have to join in if you don't want...
I just think it would be nice :) so post your MSN, AIM whatever, as a reply if you want to join the group I hope to build :)

Best regards,
Sweet Tooth
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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P.S. - This is a re-post I don't think the title of the last post was very eye-catching...
 
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I'm up for it but as I use msn for real life friends and i prefer to keep my identities seperate I won't post my addy here. My AIM is plec07, and i've added you on msn.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ah, there are more people doing this than I thought cool, My contact list is building up :)

Been using it for winging and I was able to ask a few SoSuave members for their advice which REALLY helped me out in a few sticky situations :woo: ...

Carry on adding your MSN / AIM (/Whatever you use) adresses :)

Thanks to those of you who are already taking part :)
 
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Thats me.

Also, once we get this setup and comfortable, perhaps we may beable to set up weekly meetings. I realize that organization would be key as I know how MSN can get cluttered.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay let's keep it going :) we starting to get more people now :)
 
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Bump...

Just want to keep this thread alive as I think it has really gone well so far...
 
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this seems like a good idea. i can ask for help and help others instantly. good idea. this should be told to the mods maybe they can make some sort of instant messaging service like a chat room..unless there already is one and ive missed it??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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