"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been reading around this forum for quite a while and I thought, wouldn't it be nice if we all came together on MSN or AIM or something, and I know that some users put their AIMs, MSN,s etc. as an option to view, but not that many, I made my very own account earlier specially for use on the forum:

[email protected] (I only use MSN Messenger myself)

And the only people I am going to add are others from this forum and others like it (e.g. Mystery's Forum), this way we would be able to stick together in our own little group and send instant messages to others, and ask advice and get quick answers :)

You don't have to join in if you don't want...
I just think it would be nice :) so post your MSN, AIM whatever, as a reply if you want to join the group I hope to build :)

Best regards,
Sweet Tooth
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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P.S. - This is a re-post I don't think the title of the last post was very eye-catching...
 
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I'm up for it but as I use msn for real life friends and i prefer to keep my identities seperate I won't post my addy here. My AIM is plec07, and i've added you on msn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ah, there are more people doing this than I thought cool, My contact list is building up :)

Been using it for winging and I was able to ask a few SoSuave members for their advice which REALLY helped me out in a few sticky situations :woo: ...

Carry on adding your MSN / AIM (/Whatever you use) adresses :)

Thanks to those of you who are already taking part :)
 
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Thats me.

Also, once we get this setup and comfortable, perhaps we may beable to set up weekly meetings. I realize that organization would be key as I know how MSN can get cluttered.

undedtom
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay let's keep it going :) we starting to get more people now :)
 
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Bump...

Just want to keep this thread alive as I think it has really gone well so far...
 
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this seems like a good idea. i can ask for help and help others instantly. good idea. this should be told to the mods maybe they can make some sort of instant messaging service like a chat room..unless there already is one and ive missed it??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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