"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been reading around this forum for quite a while and I thought, wouldn't it be nice if we all came together on MSN or AIM or something, and I know that some users put their AIMs, MSN,s etc. as an option to view, but not that many, I made my very own account earlier specially for use on the forum:

[email protected] (I only use MSN Messenger myself)

And the only people I am going to add are others from this forum and others like it (e.g. Mystery's Forum), this way we would be able to stick together in our own little group and send instant messages to others, and ask advice and get quick answers :)

You don't have to join in if you don't want...
I just think it would be nice :) so post your MSN, AIM whatever, as a reply if you want to join the group I hope to build :)

Best regards,
Sweet Tooth
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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P.S. - This is a re-post I don't think the title of the last post was very eye-catching...
 

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I'm up for it but as I use msn for real life friends and i prefer to keep my identities seperate I won't post my addy here. My AIM is plec07, and i've added you on msn.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ah, there are more people doing this than I thought cool, My contact list is building up :)

Been using it for winging and I was able to ask a few SoSuave members for their advice which REALLY helped me out in a few sticky situations :woo: ...

Carry on adding your MSN / AIM (/Whatever you use) adresses :)

Thanks to those of you who are already taking part :)
 

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Thats me.

Also, once we get this setup and comfortable, perhaps we may beable to set up weekly meetings. I realize that organization would be key as I know how MSN can get cluttered.

undedtom
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay let's keep it going :) we starting to get more people now :)
 

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Bump...

Just want to keep this thread alive as I think it has really gone well so far...
 

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this seems like a good idea. i can ask for help and help others instantly. good idea. this should be told to the mods maybe they can make some sort of instant messaging service like a chat room..unless there already is one and ive missed it??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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