Called her babe?

[imservin22]

Called her babe...she asked why do you call me that? What's up?

 

[imservin22]

have not hooked up with her yet

 

[betheman]

Called her babe...she asked why do you call me that? What's up?

"why do you call me that? 2

"its more polite than fatass babe ;-) "

 

[dap]

"Don't worry about it"

But honestly, this girl is prolly not into you.

 

[VladPatton]

That's why you pretty much don't use any term like that until you know she's into you. If she challenges you on why you call her that, it makes for a ʂhitty situation. In short, she probably has low IL in you to begin with, hence the rebellion to "babe".

 

[Mike32ct]

It's a little presumptuous early on. That's for a LTR chick.

 

[moon goddess]

Had a guy who was calling me "baby" from the very first email. Red Flag. That means he is spinning so many plates he can't remember who he is talking to so he calls everyone "baby" and "sweetheart".

 

[JohnChops]

Had a guy who was calling me "baby" from the very first email. Red Flag. That means he is spinning so many plates he can't remember who he is talking to so he calls everyone "baby" and "sweetheart".

^^ what a sl0re this woman is. She needs the BanCock.

Anyway, who cares thats some over analyzing . I use hun, babe, baby, whatever the fvck I feel like calling any girl lol. My trick- dont use it in a serious tone. That is most likely what you did so shes like "ohemgee wtf is going on here?". Use it if you want, use it in a non serious tone.:moon:

 

[moon goddess]

^^ what a sl0re this woman is. She needs the BanCock.

Seriously, dude?

 

[omega05]

no backstory or nothing? How are we suppose to decipher what's going on?

 

[LittleBigOne]

^^ what a sl0re this woman is. She needs the BanCock.

Anyway, who cares thats some over analyzing . I use hun, babe, baby, whatever the fvck I feel like calling any girl lol. My trick- dont use it in a serious tone. That is most likely what you did so shes like "ohemgee wtf is going on here?". Use it if you want, use it in a non serious tone.:moon:

I think Moon Goddes wants to make you clear that guys need to be a bit more creative then just saying ´hey babe´. It´s almost the same like ´Hey Moon Goddes, you have nice boots ( i imagine she wears boots), wanne f#ck?´. Even in a less serious tone you won´t get far with ´hey babe´

 

[perseverance]

'Babe', 'Love', 'Sweet thing' are just corny names and not only that, they sound so condescending it's unbelievable.

I have had some older women call me 'sweetie', 'my love' and I just cringe. So if it grates on me, it wouldn't surprise me if it grates on a lot of other people too.

I always refer to a person by their forename or surname, nothing else.

 

[Down Low]

The women you want to be GFs, treat like GFs, and hope they come around. She's not coming around. If she was, she'd be glad you called her by a term of endearment.

Really, what kind of feminist cvnt doesn't like a man who treats her with a special tenderness he reserves only for women? "Yes, Mizzz Blackheart SIR!"

perseverence, this is yet another example of why women aren't men and can't be treated like men. We expect women to go down on their knees and svck d1cks. Sure, it's humiliating as hell. (The worst insult you can make to a man is to call him a "c0cksucker.") We expect women to humble themselves before men. There'd be something wrong if they didn't. Women are inferior to men and should act like it. So men are right to treat women like little children -- corny pet names and all.

 

[Trump]

Called her babe...she asked why do you call me that? What's up?

Lol. Either you are the Fonz or a 6'3 biker with a gut and a Harley.

 

[perseverance]

perseverence, this is yet another example of why women aren't men and can't be treated like men. We expect women to go down on their knees and svck d1cks.

What are you on about? I don't use these names for women, because I find them cringeworthy, it has nothing to do with what women want and do not want. Some women like these pet names and other women do not. I don't like them myself, that's why I won't use them. If I know a person's name, I'll call them by their name.

 

[imservin22]

The situation is we're in grad school together and we flirt back and forth. It's our first year, we're together a lot in at school, she always tries to find me and sit next to me in the library, I asked her out once she said she was busy, so that was a flag, haven't really asked her out for a date since, I was going to once exams are over as my act because then they'll be no excuses. Since we've gone to get food a few times, she'll always hook me up hw, bring me food etc. She's pretty attractive, and I'm not naive, I'm she has plenty of guys trying to get at her, and she's not my girl so she can live a life of her own, but she always reverts back to me. I'm just trying to figure this one out because I actually like her more than my other plates, so I would be down to continue a slow play, but there's no reason to do that if it's going nowhere. That's why I went with the babe to reaffirm that I'm not looking to be a friend, and if that's all this is then I'm out. I had done it a few times and didn't get this response. I'm a little older now, and the random chicks are have been old for a while, looking for something more stable.

 

[AgentSmith]

I asked her out once she said she was busy

A woman with high interest in you always can find time for you. Ask her back out after exams if you want, if it's a no go then you should forget about anything more than being her friend.