oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
My girlfriend and I are going to Mexico for spring break in March. We're thinking either Cancun or Cabo. I havent been to either so if anyone has been to both you should compare the two for me.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Cabo vs Cancun
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cabo is probably better for a romantic getaway. I don't know if bringing a girl to spring break in Cancun is a good idea. Like bringing sand to the beach.
I'd say consider Puerto Vallarta too. Rent a condo in the Zona Romantica. That's a very nice destination for a couple. I like that place quite a bit actually.
I'd say consider Puerto Vallarta too. Rent a condo in the Zona Romantica. That's a very nice destination for a couple. I like that place quite a bit actually.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Yea, we're considering Puerto Vallarta as well as Playa del Carmen. Id prefer Playa because it seems like it would be more chill. I dont want some place with a bunch of ruckus, but i realize its spring break. One of her girlfriends parents has a house in Cozumel so i think somewhere on the Gulf side would be good.speakeasy said:Cabo is probably better for a romantic getaway. I don't know if bringing a girl to spring break in Cancun is a good idea. Like bringing sand to the beach.
I'd say consider Puerto Vallarta too. Rent a condo in the Zona Romantica. That's a very nice destination for a couple. I like that place quite a bit actually.
I'd watch out for Mexico right now due to the fact that the authorites over there are having major problems with the drug cartels/ gang's .
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'd watch out for Mexico right now due to the fact that the authorites over there are having major problems with the drug cartels/ gang's .
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.