oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
My girlfriend and I are going to Mexico for spring break in March. We're thinking either Cancun or Cabo. I havent been to either so if anyone has been to both you should compare the two for me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cabo vs Cancun
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cabo is probably better for a romantic getaway. I don't know if bringing a girl to spring break in Cancun is a good idea. Like bringing sand to the beach.
I'd say consider Puerto Vallarta too. Rent a condo in the Zona Romantica. That's a very nice destination for a couple. I like that place quite a bit actually.
I'd say consider Puerto Vallarta too. Rent a condo in the Zona Romantica. That's a very nice destination for a couple. I like that place quite a bit actually.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Yea, we're considering Puerto Vallarta as well as Playa del Carmen. Id prefer Playa because it seems like it would be more chill. I dont want some place with a bunch of ruckus, but i realize its spring break. One of her girlfriends parents has a house in Cozumel so i think somewhere on the Gulf side would be good.speakeasy said:Cabo is probably better for a romantic getaway. I don't know if bringing a girl to spring break in Cancun is a good idea. Like bringing sand to the beach.
I'd say consider Puerto Vallarta too. Rent a condo in the Zona Romantica. That's a very nice destination for a couple. I like that place quite a bit actually.
I'd watch out for Mexico right now due to the fact that the authorites over there are having major problems with the drug cartels/ gang's .
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'd watch out for Mexico right now due to the fact that the authorites over there are having major problems with the drug cartels/ gang's .
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.
I know cause I live like 4 hours away from the border and hear lots of stories , plus the fact that lots of people have been either attacked or kidnapped (Visitors) just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
So I'd be careful.