"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C&F When to stop

Analyzeit

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I pretty much have always been a complete natural and C&F when i read guides on it, there almost exact replicas of my conversations or i could probably right my own guide and it would put most of those guides to shame.

But after i get a bit of playful hitting and all that crap from a girl (is that even a good sign????) I feel i lose it a little and they get bored of it as if they just want a normal conversation, which I happen to be nice and bad at and whats worse i already know a lot about them by then and can't even start a conversation easily.

I was just wondering if you think I'm on the right lines with this?? oh and if playful hitting and all that crap is a good sign coz i sure get it a lot
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cassanova_Child

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Analyzeit said:
I pretty much have always been a complete natural and C&F when i read guides on it, there almost exact replicas of my conversations or i could probably right my own guide and it would put most of those guides to shame.

But after i get a bit of playful hitting and all that crap from a girl (is that even a good sign????) I feel i lose it a little and they get bored of it as if they just want a normal conversation, which I happen to be nice and bad at and whats worse i already know a lot about them by then and can't even start a conversation easily.

I was just wondering if you think I'm on the right lines with this?? oh and if playful hitting and all that crap is a good sign coz i sure get it a lot
C+F is well and good as a supplement to your regular game, and when you're talking. but you cant rely on it. throw some other stuff in, tell stories, tease them, etc...

and yes, playful hitting is a good sign.
 

War Against Betaism

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There isn't a time to stop when it comes to C&F. David DeAngelo wasn't lying when he said you can use it over and over again. There is truly no limit to it. The thing is C&F and "normal conversations" go hand in hand; you can't really C&F unless you have the base of having "normal conversations" fixed in there.

This is what I kind of don't like about David D's teachings. He dissects C&F from normal conversation and makes it seem like raw C&F is a sure fire method to get women to get people to buy his sh1t when in reality C&F and how you normally talk to women (unless you're an AFC) are actually part of the whole formula.
 
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