"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Buying clothes and girls advises

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Yesterday I went to the mall to buy classic blue Jean's cause my favorite had a big hole in it

I was looking for the same Jean's, girl helped me to find the exact one, and then she told me maybe I'd like to buy a grey color (showing me some blue with grey mixture, not sure what's the color name.. pretty nice jeans same brand)

I was thinking about it a moment, cause I realized maybe she try to help me.. most time if somebody tries to push me something I feel it

I tried them, liked and bought

Your thoughts
Should u depend on girls taste when buying clothes

She also asked if I want t shirts I guess my t shirts are lame

In the end she offered me same Jean's in black color but I was too tired
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let her do about 10% of your wardrobe no more. It's important to be able to dress yourself.
 

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Yesterday I went to the mall to buy classic blue Jean's cause my favorite had a big hole in it

I was looking for the same Jean's, girl helped me to find the exact one, and then she told me maybe I'd like to buy a grey color (showing me some blue with grey mixture, not sure what's the color name.. pretty nice jeans same brand)

I was thinking about it a moment, cause I realized maybe she try to help me.. most time if somebody tries to push me something I feel it

I tried them, liked and bought

Your thoughts
Should u depend on girls taste when buying clothes

She also asked if I want t shirts I guess my t shirts are lame

In the end she offered me same Jean's in black color but I was too tired
That's not even something you should think about man. It's not always a power game. If it weren't for her, maybe you wouldn't have discovered those other jeans. You saw, liked and bought them. What's the big deal? It's not like she forced you to buy them.

Advice is only negative advice, if you see it as such. You have to be able to filter out bullsh*t and pick what benefits you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let her do about 10% of your wardrobe no more. It's important to be able to dress yourself.
I know how it works in usa, everybody dresses nice. In my country is all about brands.. you'll hardly see ppl with formal outfits even in the business area
 

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Yesterday I went to the mall to buy classic blue Jean's cause my favorite had a big hole in it

I was looking for the same Jean's, girl helped me to find the exact one, and then she told me maybe I'd like to buy a grey color (showing me some blue with grey mixture, not sure what's the color name.. pretty nice jeans same brand)

I was thinking about it a moment, cause I realized maybe she try to help me.. most time if somebody tries to push me something I feel it

I tried them, liked and bought

Your thoughts
Should u depend on girls taste when buying clothes

She also asked if I want t shirts I guess my t shirts are lame

In the end she offered me same Jean's in black color but I was too tired
She was right in this instance. Alpha M often recommends grey jeans.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know how it works in usa, everybody dresses nice. In my country is all about brands.. you'll hardly see ppl with formal outfits even in the business area
Yes but women.... A woman that fully dresses her man ends yp looking at him like he can't take care of himself. Like a child. This is the experience I've seen on many men who allow it. Letting her do a small portion is acceptable. Let her gift you some clothes.
 

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Yes but women.... A woman that fully dresses her man ends yp looking at him like he can't take care of himself. Like a child. This is the experience I've seen on many men who allow it. Letting her do a small portion is acceptable. Let her gift you some clothes.
Exactly.
 
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