"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jack12345

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Yesterday I went to the mall to buy classic blue Jean's cause my favorite had a big hole in it

I was looking for the same Jean's, girl helped me to find the exact one, and then she told me maybe I'd like to buy a grey color (showing me some blue with grey mixture, not sure what's the color name.. pretty nice jeans same brand)

I was thinking about it a moment, cause I realized maybe she try to help me.. most time if somebody tries to push me something I feel it

I tried them, liked and bought

Your thoughts
Should u depend on girls taste when buying clothes

She also asked if I want t shirts I guess my t shirts are lame

In the end she offered me same Jean's in black color but I was too tired
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let her do about 10% of your wardrobe no more. It's important to be able to dress yourself.
 

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Yesterday I went to the mall to buy classic blue Jean's cause my favorite had a big hole in it

I was looking for the same Jean's, girl helped me to find the exact one, and then she told me maybe I'd like to buy a grey color (showing me some blue with grey mixture, not sure what's the color name.. pretty nice jeans same brand)

I was thinking about it a moment, cause I realized maybe she try to help me.. most time if somebody tries to push me something I feel it

I tried them, liked and bought

Your thoughts
Should u depend on girls taste when buying clothes

She also asked if I want t shirts I guess my t shirts are lame

In the end she offered me same Jean's in black color but I was too tired
That's not even something you should think about man. It's not always a power game. If it weren't for her, maybe you wouldn't have discovered those other jeans. You saw, liked and bought them. What's the big deal? It's not like she forced you to buy them.

Advice is only negative advice, if you see it as such. You have to be able to filter out bullsh*t and pick what benefits you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Let her do about 10% of your wardrobe no more. It's important to be able to dress yourself.
I know how it works in usa, everybody dresses nice. In my country is all about brands.. you'll hardly see ppl with formal outfits even in the business area
 

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Yesterday I went to the mall to buy classic blue Jean's cause my favorite had a big hole in it

I was looking for the same Jean's, girl helped me to find the exact one, and then she told me maybe I'd like to buy a grey color (showing me some blue with grey mixture, not sure what's the color name.. pretty nice jeans same brand)

I was thinking about it a moment, cause I realized maybe she try to help me.. most time if somebody tries to push me something I feel it

I tried them, liked and bought

Your thoughts
Should u depend on girls taste when buying clothes

She also asked if I want t shirts I guess my t shirts are lame

In the end she offered me same Jean's in black color but I was too tired
She was right in this instance. Alpha M often recommends grey jeans.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know how it works in usa, everybody dresses nice. In my country is all about brands.. you'll hardly see ppl with formal outfits even in the business area
Yes but women.... A woman that fully dresses her man ends yp looking at him like he can't take care of himself. Like a child. This is the experience I've seen on many men who allow it. Letting her do a small portion is acceptable. Let her gift you some clothes.
 

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Yes but women.... A woman that fully dresses her man ends yp looking at him like he can't take care of himself. Like a child. This is the experience I've seen on many men who allow it. Letting her do a small portion is acceptable. Let her gift you some clothes.
Exactly.
 
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