Ok, i wasn't planning on posting any situation-specific threads, but I am pretty confused. Here's the deal. I'll make it short since you guys probably know the bs details anyway since it hapens to everyone. Met a girl at my friends bday party. Gamed her perfectly all night, got the number. find out later that my friend wants her, but it's never gonna happen. I texted her (I know, bad move) a few times to come out with me and some friends. Showed up once with friends and left within 5 minutes to another club. Positive resposnses to about 5 texts over a period of about 3 weeks, then stops responding altogether. Adds me on myspace, and doesn't respond to any emails there. I'd really like to bang her but not sure what the deal is. i don't think friend zoned because I haven't hung out with her enough to fall into the friend hole. Only other idea I have is that my "friend" may have made me out to be an a-hole since he wants her. WHat ahould I do now? Give up on her?? Any ideas? Thanks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Buyer's remorse??
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Nope. You should've picked up the phone, rung her and asked her to hang out on such & such dates. Instead of 5 texts over 3 weeks, it could've been 5 dates.
When you game it right and get the number, strike when the iron is hot.
When you game it right and get the number, strike when the iron is hot.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
incorrect. He needs to stop being a wimp and call her. Texting is the way to the friend zone.DonJuan11 said:
call her, say if you have to leave a voice mail "hey its _____, wanna come chill with me at ____ on ____,gimme a call (your number), bye"
like the other poster said in this thread, you should have rung her up when the iron was hot. After you meet them you need to call them and get your voice implanted in their head. Remember that a woman hearing your voice gets her thinking about you in ways that txting does not. Texting will most times get you into her gal pal status. I don't blame her for forgetting about you remember that girls have very fast fading interest levels, so strike while the iron is hot like it was already said in this thread.
1 thing you should do next time you meet another girl is when you are going to stablish the first contact by phone (lets say 3 days after you meet her) you can txt her, wait for her reply than call her like 2 mins after and say "hey i just read your message, whats up etc etc." It is very important to stablish a phone conversation with her and get your voice implanted in her head.
You need to stop worrying so much about this one because you only got 1 option which is asking her out. If you don't get a date (which is 95% likely because you never really showed your intentions with her and waited too long so she lost interest) you can forget about her.
read the 2 strikes ruleDrewskie said:
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f28300. Kudos on bringing up the 2 Strikes Rule.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.