"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Busting your load in a girl on the first date

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If she offers you one out of her purse. She doesn’t give you a chance to undress her first. She takes her own pants and panties off at the same time the second her back touches the bed…
Wow, I have always had to at least ask her if wants to shower. :rolleyes: (I think I attach sex with the shower because of all my EscortMaxxing.)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you can get first date sex, it's totally fine to ejaculate inside her vagina on the first date. Do it inside of a condom though.

First date sex has some other issues though. The biggest issues around first date sex is that it often occurs late at night (not physical peak of alertness for people who aren't night owls) and often under the influence of alcohol. Those can affect the quality of sex, especially when combined with the nerves of a new partner and unfamiliarity.
 

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I have a vasectomy so this is the only way I roll. If you are concerned about std you have to wrap it up.
 

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Never trust when a woman tells you she is on birth control or you may learn a very expensive and 18+ year long lesson.

You literally know next to nothing about this woman, why would you believe anything she told you yet?
 

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Never trust when a woman tells you she is on birth control or you may learn a very expensive and 18+ year long lesson.

You literally know next to nothing about this woman, why would you believe anything she told you yet?
Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 applies in extended, committed relationships but is even more important with first date sex.

I have a vasectomy so this is the only way I roll. If you are concerned about std you have to wrap it up.
What's the point in getting a vasectomy when you'll still need condoms for STD protection when spinning plates?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 applies in extended, committed relationships but is even more important with first date sex.



What's the point in getting a vasectomy when you'll still need condoms for STD protection when spinning plates?
That’s small potatoes relative to having another kid. You have small risk of getting an untreatable STD. ‘If you see something, say something.’

And that’s laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule
 

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That’s small potatoes relative to having another kid. You have small risk of getting an untreatable STD. ‘If you see something, say something.’

And that’s laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule
If I need to keep using a condom, then I don't see a point in going through the procedure. That's why I haven't had a vasectomy.

Why is it laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule? I think it's an important rule. When I consider my lifetime history, it's the Iron Rule that I've implemented best in my life. I think the Iron of Rules of Tomassi are so awesome.

Finishing inside the woman wearing a condom is still very pleasurable.
 

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If I need to keep using a condom, then I don't see a point in going through the procedure. That's why I haven't had a vasectomy.

Why is it laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule? I think it's an important rule. When I consider my lifetime history, it's the Iron Rule that I've implemented best in my life. I think the Iron of Rules of Tomassi are so awesome.

Finishing inside the woman wearing a condom is still very pleasurable.
I got the procedure because I don’t want kids now. It’s reversible.

and yeah... nominate him for the Nobel prize for coining a rule based on common sense.
 

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I have taken my chances in the past and gotten away with it.

It is also true that it's easy to treat this as not a big deal........until it is and you wish you had been more careful. I think you can afford to be a little more free in your business with a woman you have been seeing for a bit. A first date lay where you bust in the girl? I think that is asking for trouble more-so from the STD perspective than pregnancy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In my experience, most women crave it. Remember, semen is a big part of your masculinity. There is a masculine mystique and energy in your semen, women are wired both spiritually and physically to crave that energy from you.

My two cents.
They love it. Find me a girl that doesn’t want a nut busted in them. It makes them feel sexy, powerful, submissive, etc
 

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If you can get first date sex, it's totally fine to ejaculate inside her vagina on the first date. Do it inside of a condom though.

First date sex has some other issues though. The biggest issues around first date sex is that it often occurs late at night (not physical peak of alertness for people who aren't night owls) and often under the influence of alcohol. Those can affect the quality of sex, especially when combined with the nerves of a new partner and unfamiliarity.
ONS cumming inside is the exception. There's a wild risky aspect to it. But it's safer to do these days to the right girls cause a lot have BC. And if they don't, there's so many ways to stop conception that I feel safer than before. It kinda ruins the fun but hey not all of us live as daredevils.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I did about 30 women without a condom.... 1st date, 2nd date, 3rd date, whatever..... never catched anything, neither anyone got pregnant (except my wife after 1 month of actively trying without birthcontrol).

Just pass on the obvious batshytcrazy hoes and you be fine.

Asides from that, the women insisting on condoms were mostly on my worst-fvck list. Most of the time these are also the chicks that neither suck your dyck nor swallow. One of them even made me pull my d out every minute so she could check if the condom is still on , wtf!

Cvming into whatever cave of your woman is the best part of sex and the best women even demanded me to do it.
 

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In my experience, most women crave it. Remember, semen is a big part of your masculinity. There is a masculine mystique and energy in your semen, women are wired both spiritually and physically to crave that energy from you.

My two cents.
It's actually been shown to improve a woman's mood and prevent depression in studies
 

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Had a girl recently who wanted me to "Pull Out" lol condoms are 5 feet away, come to findout she was crazylike legit
Protect your sperm fellas at allcost!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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