"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Bust Free" bras and such...

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Maybe this has been brought up before, I don't know.

Anyway - I just saw a commercial for these bra's that are basically little "clevage enhancers" women stick under their shirts to make their boobs look bigger. I saw one brand that adds like a whole cup size or something.

I gotta say - What the fvck? Would that not be an awkward moment (to say the least) to be with a chick, have her get naked, and find out her breasts were fake. And I'm not talking about a woman with regular implants - at least you can still stick your face inbetween those and go "Brwerrrrr." With these they just "fall off" and no longer exist.

The deception!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm wondering...When will us guys get the "package enhancement' underwear so that it's clearly visible even WITH pants on? :p
 

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You mean the cucumber? :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh, no... Don't confuse the Wonder Bra with this travesty.

The wonder bra just pushes the boobs up a bit (I believe)...This thing is like a little plastic/silicon thing women adhere to make it look like they have bigger boobies than actually they do.

It's basically like stuffing a bra except it looks a lot/"feels" more natural. It looks nice for a bit, until you realize that they've been lying to you. Shallow of me? Yeah, sure...But so is wearing these things.

Scenario: Woman wears one of these things. Man finds out. Man gets disapointed/angry. Woman gets mad at man for feeling this way.

So who's right? The guy for being mad that the girl for not telling him about her pseudo-plastic surgery, or the girl for not understanding his rage? You tell me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
I'm so glad my GF has natural 34 DDs :D
That is way too big.

Anything over a hanfull is a waste.
 

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Thats your opinion. I just know that Id sleep really good with my head in those things.
i'd suffocate:p
 

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lol those things have been around for ages.
 

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Would you guys stop fretting?

My ex wore those all the fn time... even though her natural boobies were fine she just enhanced it... She was fukkin juicy in those bras.

Look at it this way... she already has to have boobies to enhance. A guy can't just put on a bra and have an appearance of boobies.

They're trying to look good for you. Let them :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Thats a question of your viewpoint, to me its more like deception.
Same here...To me, it's like if I wore a spandex suit and shoved a cumcumber or something down there.
 

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Well... ok...

It's there... girls do it...

Question is: how can you use it to your advantage?
 

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Use it to your advantage?

Unless you mean busting (no pun intended) some C&F line about calling them on it, I don't think it is in your "advantage." Then again, even a C&F line that "works" leaves you with a deceptionest of a girl.

I think the question should be: Are they worth it? And - Are your values of "are they worth it" based solely on getting laid?
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Look at it this way... she already has to have boobies to enhance. A guy can't just put on a bra and have an appearance of boobies.
well actuly, i think the average american male probably could :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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