"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Bust Free" bras and such...

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Maybe this has been brought up before, I don't know.

Anyway - I just saw a commercial for these bra's that are basically little "clevage enhancers" women stick under their shirts to make their boobs look bigger. I saw one brand that adds like a whole cup size or something.

I gotta say - What the fvck? Would that not be an awkward moment (to say the least) to be with a chick, have her get naked, and find out her breasts were fake. And I'm not talking about a woman with regular implants - at least you can still stick your face inbetween those and go "Brwerrrrr." With these they just "fall off" and no longer exist.

The deception!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm wondering...When will us guys get the "package enhancement' underwear so that it's clearly visible even WITH pants on? :p
 

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You mean the cucumber? :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh, no... Don't confuse the Wonder Bra with this travesty.

The wonder bra just pushes the boobs up a bit (I believe)...This thing is like a little plastic/silicon thing women adhere to make it look like they have bigger boobies than actually they do.

It's basically like stuffing a bra except it looks a lot/"feels" more natural. It looks nice for a bit, until you realize that they've been lying to you. Shallow of me? Yeah, sure...But so is wearing these things.

Scenario: Woman wears one of these things. Man finds out. Man gets disapointed/angry. Woman gets mad at man for feeling this way.

So who's right? The guy for being mad that the girl for not telling him about her pseudo-plastic surgery, or the girl for not understanding his rage? You tell me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
I'm so glad my GF has natural 34 DDs :D
That is way too big.

Anything over a hanfull is a waste.
 

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Thats your opinion. I just know that Id sleep really good with my head in those things.
i'd suffocate:p
 

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lol those things have been around for ages.
 

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Would you guys stop fretting?

My ex wore those all the fn time... even though her natural boobies were fine she just enhanced it... She was fukkin juicy in those bras.

Look at it this way... she already has to have boobies to enhance. A guy can't just put on a bra and have an appearance of boobies.

They're trying to look good for you. Let them :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Thats a question of your viewpoint, to me its more like deception.
Same here...To me, it's like if I wore a spandex suit and shoved a cumcumber or something down there.
 

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Well... ok...

It's there... girls do it...

Question is: how can you use it to your advantage?
 

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Use it to your advantage?

Unless you mean busting (no pun intended) some C&F line about calling them on it, I don't think it is in your "advantage." Then again, even a C&F line that "works" leaves you with a deceptionest of a girl.

I think the question should be: Are they worth it? And - Are your values of "are they worth it" based solely on getting laid?
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Look at it this way... she already has to have boobies to enhance. A guy can't just put on a bra and have an appearance of boobies.
well actuly, i think the average american male probably could :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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