"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Business... Is Life... Is Women.... DJ's should be rich...

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DJ's should be Richs... Successful...:kick: :kick: :kick: :kick: do you guys have any idea, whats a good business in Upstate NY... I want to start my own......:kick:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ofcourse i dont do things for women, i should have just ask the question whats a good business in the upstate
 

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Judging from your name, I would say that law would be a natural inclination. Then again, I don't know you personally. What sort of credentials do you possess?
 

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I started working a sales job when I was 17 in my senior year of high school... I still think it was the best decision of my life.

Not only do you learn social skills to the fullest extent, but you also learn 90% of the business tactics you're going to need in the real world. My sales job was like my college for me. College is more like a vacation than something to prepare me for life.

3 Years later, I'm in college with my own company.. I owe it all to getting into Sales.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just got out of highschool CactusMcDougal.... WC2 Sounds Cool... In school one time tried selling a product i dont have... right and i have like 100 kids ready to buy it... if i wasnt too lazy to actually get the product i could have sold it just by talking.... i think im a great salesman
 

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WC2, what sales job did you take?
 

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If you’re a good DJ then you should be a great salesman…

The concepts of selling yourself are exactly the same because people buy products if they like the person too… the drive and motivation to resist knockbacks that DJs must also possess is key for sales because sales is never a 100% success rate…

But yea… the attributes that DJs learn are of great use in sales and life in general… as long as you realize that there is more to being a DJ than C&F…
 

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theres good men and theres bad men... they are both successful in a financial sense... and theres male who think like a females... and so on... i just hope i keep doing whats right...
 

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and there are AFCs like bill gates who will always always be an abject failure in terms of DJ GAME but he's the richest man in the world.

get it straight - being AFC or DJ does not necessarily have anything to do with success in life.

delta
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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why did you even bother calling yourself lawyer if you don't know what you want to be...
 

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Delta said:
and there are AFCs like bill gates who will always always be an abject failure in terms of DJ GAME but he's the richest man in the world.

get it straight - being AFC or DJ does not necessarily have anything to do with success in life.

delta

bill gates is not afc... *****
 

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i know what i want to be... i just dont care
 

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oh please please please....

bill gates is AFC. napoleon was AFC. there are all kinds of UBER SUCCESSFUL MALES in the history of the world who not only were not DJ but not ALPHA!

as i've said elsewhere, ULTRA COMPETENCE or even EXPERTISE in a given area CAN MAKE YOU RICH. but such skill says nearly nothing about how you rate on the AFC - DJ scale.

most people here just have a ridiculous difficulty in saying that bill gates is AFC simply because they equate success with alpha and djness....

but the nerds in math and chess club in high school, these guys end up doing spectacularly well in certain fields.

bill gates IS afc ... ********

delta
 

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Delta said:
and there are AFCs like bill gates who will always always be an abject failure in terms of DJ GAME but he's the richest man in the world.

get it straight - being AFC or DJ does not necessarily have anything to do with success in life.

delta
:yes: Success = Confidence and Confidence is needed to be a PUA, need I say anymore :yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yes you do.

there are tons of guys, tons of AFCs whose problem exists in ONE AREA ONLY. they have their lives together, they are successful and good at what they do.

but... they can't get chicks to save their lives.

confidence in one area of life does not automatically or necessarily translate into another.

also, supreme confidence combined with absolute incompetence is one of the most entertainingly hilarious things you will ever witness.

delta
 

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The fact of the matter is...it is extremely difficult to elevate your social status from that into which you were born. College is the best bet, combined with a lot of hard work and a lot of luck.

Even people who go to good universities and have top professional jobs are still only considered upper middle class. Small Business owners are considered Lower Middle Class as a rule. You CAN be a millionaire when you are old, though...if you start putting $1 a day into a Mutual Fund from the time you are 18.
 

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LAWYER said:
Just got out of highschool CactusMcDougal.... WC2 Sounds Cool... In school one time tried selling a product i dont have... right and i have like 100 kids ready to buy it... if i wasnt too lazy to actually get the product i could have sold it just by talking.... i think im a great salesman
If you're lazy you will never be rich...sales is considered lower middle class as well. I'm studying social class and stratification in Sociology right now...well, last week. Tomorrow is my final. The top prestigious job in the US right now is lawyer. It's ranked higher than even a doctor. However, being a lawyer requires a lot of college. Better hit the books now. :)
 

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Prestigious? More prestigious than being the President of Harvard or Yale? More Prestigious than be a brain surgeon? More prestigious than be a Cabinet Level secretary (such as Secretary of State)? More prestigious than be an Ambassador? More Prestigious than being a 'rocket' scientist?

ANYONE can be a lawyer. Heck, go to your County (Courthouse) and I'm sure you will see a bunch of underpaid lawyers there.

All you need is an undergraduate degree on ANYTHING (music, English, Latin, History, etc.).

However, only a handful of people can be Engineers/Scientists/Physicists/Chemists/Geologies. And most are already from Non-U.S.A. nations.


In a nutshell...any good engineer can be a doctor (medicine) or a lawyer. But a great lawyer (or doctor) cannot necessary transition into becoming an engineer.

Engineers MUST have analytical mind. Hard core math/science. While Lawyers and Doctors only need the ability to read and memorize things.
 

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Delta said:
and there are AFCs like bill gates who will always always be an abject failure in terms of DJ GAME but he's the richest man in the world.

get it straight - being AFC or DJ does not necessarily have anything to do with success in life.

delta
Why is he a failure? He is married to a woman that is loyal to him. A woman that turned out to be the "CORRECT" woman in the essense that she has not divorced him and taken half of his fortune. A woman that literally supports his goals.

If anything...Bill Gates is a clear indication of a man that has it ALL:

1- Fortune
2- Power
3- the right woman
4- the right family
5- the ability to give and be happy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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