"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Business... Is Life... Is Women.... DJ's should be rich...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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WC2
Master Don Juan
Not only do you learn social skills to the fullest extent, but you also learn 90% of the business tactics you're going to need in the real world. My sales job was like my college for me. College is more like a vacation than something to prepare me for life.
3 Years later, I'm in college with my own company.. I owe it all to getting into Sales.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
The concepts of selling yourself are exactly the same because people buy products if they like the person too… the drive and motivation to resist knockbacks that DJs must also possess is key for sales because sales is never a 100% success rate…
But yea… the attributes that DJs learn are of great use in sales and life in general… as long as you realize that there is more to being a DJ than C&F…
Delta
Master Don Juan
get it straight - being AFC or DJ does not necessarily have anything to do with success in life.
delta
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Delta
Master Don Juan
bill gates is AFC. napoleon was AFC. there are all kinds of UBER SUCCESSFUL MALES in the history of the world who not only were not DJ but not ALPHA!
as i've said elsewhere, ULTRA COMPETENCE or even EXPERTISE in a given area CAN MAKE YOU RICH. but such skill says nearly nothing about how you rate on the AFC - DJ scale.
most people here just have a ridiculous difficulty in saying that bill gates is AFC simply because they equate success with alpha and djness....
but the nerds in math and chess club in high school, these guys end up doing spectacularly well in certain fields.
bill gates IS afc ... ********
delta
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Delta
Master Don Juan
there are tons of guys, tons of AFCs whose problem exists in ONE AREA ONLY. they have their lives together, they are successful and good at what they do.
but... they can't get chicks to save their lives.
confidence in one area of life does not automatically or necessarily translate into another.
also, supreme confidence combined with absolute incompetence is one of the most entertainingly hilarious things you will ever witness.
delta
Even people who go to good universities and have top professional jobs are still only considered upper middle class. Small Business owners are considered Lower Middle Class as a rule. You CAN be a millionaire when you are old, though...if you start putting $1 a day into a Mutual Fund from the time you are 18.
If you're lazy you will never be rich...sales is considered lower middle class as well. I'm studying social class and stratification in Sociology right now...well, last week. Tomorrow is my final. The top prestigious job in the US right now is lawyer. It's ranked higher than even a doctor. However, being a lawyer requires a lot of college. Better hit the books now.LAWYER said:
ANYONE can be a lawyer. Heck, go to your County (Courthouse) and I'm sure you will see a bunch of underpaid lawyers there.
All you need is an undergraduate degree on ANYTHING (music, English, Latin, History, etc.).
However, only a handful of people can be Engineers/Scientists/Physicists/Chemists/Geologies. And most are already from Non-U.S.A. nations.
In a nutshell...any good engineer can be a doctor (medicine) or a lawyer. But a great lawyer (or doctor) cannot necessary transition into becoming an engineer.
Engineers MUST have analytical mind. Hard core math/science. While Lawyers and Doctors only need the ability to read and memorize things.
Why is he a failure? He is married to a woman that is loyal to him. A woman that turned out to be the "CORRECT" woman in the essense that she has not divorced him and taken half of his fortune. A woman that literally supports his goals.Delta said:
If anything...Bill Gates is a clear indication of a man that has it ALL:
1- Fortune
2- Power
3- the right woman
4- the right family
5- the ability to give and be happy
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.