"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Burning Fat, while building lean muscle...

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Is this possible... if yes, how can I do this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It is only possible if:

-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
-You are using AAS
-Or you have extremely fu<king good genetics
 

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[S]alvatore said:
-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
even during that time, your diet has to be quite balanced, not too much over and not too much under. :D
 

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as long as you aren't under-eating (like much more than 500 calories below your maintainence) there will hardly be any loss of muscle... from experience though... any less than that + no lifting = bye bye muscle.
 

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[S]alvatore said:
It is only possible if:

-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
-You are using AAS
-Or you have extremely fu<king good genetics
c'mon mate, what's this you're saying?

it's perfectly possible for the vast majority of trainers regardless of experience. I have done it and continue to do it as do many people I know - maybe we've all got top-of-the-line genes? I doubt it..

you have to be fairly precise about your diet and consistent, meticulous, work hard with your cardio, cutoffs, thermos but it's definitely possible and doable.

steroids will make the job easier I agree.

(note: the results will not be as fast as on a traditional 'bulk' or 'cut' cycle, but they will be there believe you me. also, don't expect to go from 8% to 4% and gain 20lbs, let's keep things realistic here.. your body has to be somewhere it's comfortable at, not at the extreme ends of leanness and/or muscularity if you're to achieve this, however if you WERE that advanced you wouldn't be asking this question :))
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KillaPetehog said:
Let's say you're eating a hamburger. That's 35% total fat.

Then you drink a glass of milk. That's 2% total fat.

35+2=37

Then you eat a chocolate bar. That's 8% total fat.

37+8=45

Since when can you add percentages?



THAT'S FUKING RIDICULOUS!
Glad you agree!
 

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KillaPetehog said:
But if you are OVERWEIGHT...and need to lose weight, I'd personally do high reps with lower weights. It'll get rid of the weight faster...because if you're dealing with heavier weights..you're probably gaining more mass..which is not what you're necessarily looking for. I do agree with you that high reps with lower weights may lead to less muscle mass...but if you're overweight...your main concern is to lose weight...
This is why endurance exercises for overweight folks is against my beliefs...

1lb of muscle burns more calories than 1lb of fat.

Intense weightlifting, meaning lower reps and higher weight, is proven to burn more calories POST workout than a higher rep lower weight workout. They burn close to the same amount of calories during the fact.

Weight is a number. Obesity is an image. Muscle is smaller in volume than fat due to the difference in density. If you weigh 200lbs and have 20% bodyfat, you're going to look pretty chunky. Lets say after a year or so, your down to 195lbs and 12% bodyfat. You've only lost 5lbs. What a failure, right? Wrong. You will look a lot slimmer, look a lot more fit, and be much more muscular, yet the difference will only be about 5lbs.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
1lb of muscle burns more calories than 1lb of fat.
Exactly. Once you bulk, you will have a much easier time getting the fat off because throughout the day your muscle will be burning off so much extra energy. There are a bunch of studies about women using weight lifting to lose fat.. in many cases they gained muscle and still lost weight, just from consistently exercising with weights.
 

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To whoever said higher reps with lower weight for weight loss is correct, but only for overweight people, not bodybuilders.
 

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[S]alvatore said:
To whoever said higher reps with lower weight for weight loss is correct, but only for overweight people, not bodybuilders.

And why is this so? Weight is only a number. Running backs in the NFL are often times about 6'0 and about 230lbs. By the BMI rating, this is over weight, but if you look at these guys, they're pretty solid and lean. I wouldn't call them overweight. People need to stop worrying about the numbers, and start worrying about the image.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Exactly. If higher reps meant fat loss, then pumping out 100 reps would turn you into an 8-pack toting shredded mess.
 

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What i'm getting at, is I think most overweight people will benefit most from resistance training with higher reps, as it will burn more calories. I don't believe in that bullsh!t high reps for cutting, low reps for bulking.
 

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Thank you. Somebody else is finally using my sprinters/endurance runners comparison.

Like I mentioned before, the more intense your lifting session, the more calories you will burn. Also, heavy weightlifting keeps your metabolism and your calories burned at a higher level for a couple hours after the workout has finished. The high reps lower weight workouts do not.
 

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Guys, weight training is to gain strength. Cardio is used to burn fat (directly or indirectly). For optimum results at both muscle gain and fat loss stick to each component as it was intended.

Multi-exercise high-rep workouts can be considered cardio sessions yes but they're hardly as efficient as orthodox cardio. What's more after a while they become catabolic.

(I do agree that an intense workout - intense meaning that the load is high - will keep your metabolism elevated for some hours afterwards though)
 
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