She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
even during that time, your diet has to be quite balanced, not too much over and not too much under.[S]alvatore said:-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
c'mon mate, what's this you're saying?[S]alvatore said:It is only possible if:
-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
-You are using AAS
-Or you have extremely fu<king good genetics
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
KillaPetehog said:Let's say you're eating a hamburger. That's 35% total fat.
Then you drink a glass of milk. That's 2% total fat.
35+2=37
Then you eat a chocolate bar. That's 8% total fat.
37+8=45
Glad you agree!THAT'S FUKING RIDICULOUS!
This is why endurance exercises for overweight folks is against my beliefs...KillaPetehog said:But if you are OVERWEIGHT...and need to lose weight, I'd personally do high reps with lower weights. It'll get rid of the weight faster...because if you're dealing with heavier weights..you're probably gaining more mass..which is not what you're necessarily looking for. I do agree with you that high reps with lower weights may lead to less muscle mass...but if you're overweight...your main concern is to lose weight...
Exactly. Once you bulk, you will have a much easier time getting the fat off because throughout the day your muscle will be burning off so much extra energy. There are a bunch of studies about women using weight lifting to lose fat.. in many cases they gained muscle and still lost weight, just from consistently exercising with weights.Skilla_Staz said:1lb of muscle burns more calories than 1lb of fat.
[S]alvatore said:To whoever said higher reps with lower weight for weight loss is correct, but only for overweight people, not bodybuilders.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.