You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
even during that time, your diet has to be quite balanced, not too much over and not too much under.[S]alvatore said:-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
c'mon mate, what's this you're saying?[S]alvatore said:It is only possible if:
-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
-You are using AAS
-Or you have extremely fu<king good genetics
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KillaPetehog said:Let's say you're eating a hamburger. That's 35% total fat.
Then you drink a glass of milk. That's 2% total fat.
35+2=37
Then you eat a chocolate bar. That's 8% total fat.
37+8=45
Glad you agree!THAT'S FUKING RIDICULOUS!
This is why endurance exercises for overweight folks is against my beliefs...KillaPetehog said:But if you are OVERWEIGHT...and need to lose weight, I'd personally do high reps with lower weights. It'll get rid of the weight faster...because if you're dealing with heavier weights..you're probably gaining more mass..which is not what you're necessarily looking for. I do agree with you that high reps with lower weights may lead to less muscle mass...but if you're overweight...your main concern is to lose weight...
Exactly. Once you bulk, you will have a much easier time getting the fat off because throughout the day your muscle will be burning off so much extra energy. There are a bunch of studies about women using weight lifting to lose fat.. in many cases they gained muscle and still lost weight, just from consistently exercising with weights.Skilla_Staz said:1lb of muscle burns more calories than 1lb of fat.
[S]alvatore said:To whoever said higher reps with lower weight for weight loss is correct, but only for overweight people, not bodybuilders.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.