She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
even during that time, your diet has to be quite balanced, not too much over and not too much under.[S]alvatore said:-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
c'mon mate, what's this you're saying?[S]alvatore said:It is only possible if:
-You have just started working out, this may be known as the "honeymoon" period
-You are using AAS
-Or you have extremely fu<king good genetics
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
KillaPetehog said:Let's say you're eating a hamburger. That's 35% total fat.
Then you drink a glass of milk. That's 2% total fat.
35+2=37
Then you eat a chocolate bar. That's 8% total fat.
37+8=45
Glad you agree!THAT'S FUKING RIDICULOUS!
This is why endurance exercises for overweight folks is against my beliefs...KillaPetehog said:But if you are OVERWEIGHT...and need to lose weight, I'd personally do high reps with lower weights. It'll get rid of the weight faster...because if you're dealing with heavier weights..you're probably gaining more mass..which is not what you're necessarily looking for. I do agree with you that high reps with lower weights may lead to less muscle mass...but if you're overweight...your main concern is to lose weight...
Exactly. Once you bulk, you will have a much easier time getting the fat off because throughout the day your muscle will be burning off so much extra energy. There are a bunch of studies about women using weight lifting to lose fat.. in many cases they gained muscle and still lost weight, just from consistently exercising with weights.Skilla_Staz said:1lb of muscle burns more calories than 1lb of fat.
[S]alvatore said:To whoever said higher reps with lower weight for weight loss is correct, but only for overweight people, not bodybuilders.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.