"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bumping into the girl you met at that party...

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hey guys

i was at a party on friday night and was dancing and kissing this girl that goes to my school, and we were both drunk, i can only vaguely remember it, so im not sure if she wil be able to remmeber. i wasnt able to get her number.

i see her around school nearly everyday so im likely to see her tomorow, but i have no idea what im going to say to her, as this is such a tricky situation.

im in need of some advice of what to say to her when i see her. so if any of you have any ideas then please share them :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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perhaps "hey, i had fun at that party last night. how about you? Remind me again what your name is ;)"
 

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ye thats quite a gd one :) thanks
 

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haha same thing happened to me the other night

hm it was a bit strange because i never talked to her before that night and we had a little fun... just say hi to her in the hallway or whatever
 

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great..she doesnt remember it lol any suggestions now??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if she really doesn't remember then just don't worry about it. Hook up with her again if the opportunity presents itself, but you may as well never have met her. This is what you get for hooking up with a hor. don't expect much from it :rockon:
 

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obsidian that makes alot of sense actually :) you no ur stuff ;)
 
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