"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hey guys

i was at a party on friday night and was dancing and kissing this girl that goes to my school, and we were both drunk, i can only vaguely remember it, so im not sure if she wil be able to remmeber. i wasnt able to get her number.

i see her around school nearly everyday so im likely to see her tomorow, but i have no idea what im going to say to her, as this is such a tricky situation.

im in need of some advice of what to say to her when i see her. so if any of you have any ideas then please share them :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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perhaps "hey, i had fun at that party last night. how about you? Remind me again what your name is ;)"
 

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ye thats quite a gd one :) thanks
 

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haha same thing happened to me the other night

hm it was a bit strange because i never talked to her before that night and we had a little fun... just say hi to her in the hallway or whatever
 

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great..she doesnt remember it lol any suggestions now??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if she really doesn't remember then just don't worry about it. Hook up with her again if the opportunity presents itself, but you may as well never have met her. This is what you get for hooking up with a hor. don't expect much from it :rockon:
 

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obsidian that makes alot of sense actually :) you no ur stuff ;)
 
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